Overtime I've had to deal with some pretty psychotic women. Psychotic (n) A person suffering from a psychosis. (adj) Of, denoting, or suffering from a psychosis: "a psychotic disturbance". When I use the word psychotic I mean emotionally unstable women, insecure women, etc. Women who are so damaged and/ or "so far gone" that they suffer from psychosis and end up making your life a living hell also. These women aren't hard to find; they're everywhere. At school, work, clubs, movie theaters, libraries; you get the point.
Yes fellas, our worst fear : psychotic ex's
Let me take you back to a time when I first encountered a "emotionally damaged" or "psychotic" female. Back in the 9th grade I decided I wanted a actual girlfriend, so like any other young male I went around campus searching for a girl of my interest. I met a girl who almost seemed perfect, she was funny, apparently smart, and was pretty fun to be around. We began to see each other outside of school and started to bond to one another. Then, I asked her out.
So when did things go wrong? We had been dating for a while now and I started to realize that this girl had some jealousy issues. Whenever I talked to another girl there was a problem. We argued almost on a daily basis which is normal in some cases and in some healthy relationships but me being a guy that does not enjoy arguing it was really starting to catch up to me (in the worst way). I was stressed. I had never been stressed before, but all of a sudden I hit high school status met a young attractive girl that I shared some things in common with and BOOM! Stress-free Daren is stressed!
I didn't realize how much she had began to change me... Some people would call this being "head-over-heels". Not exactly, being that I wasn't a very loyal boyfriend because like any other young male, I enjoyed picking up girls with pick-up lines with my friends at the mall. It was not always like this, she had driven me to this point. Even though, we were "in love", she was changing me for the worst.
I learned that some things aren't meant to be and even when we don't agree with something, sometimes it has to be done; I had finally came to my conscious after 3 and a half long years of dating and decided to end our relationship for good. Ending a relationship with a psychotic girlfriend can sometimes be an impossible task because for some reason they can't accept the fact you have left them and they can not let go of you.
What was now my ex-girlfriend became my worst enemy. She just wouldn't let go. She even stalked me sometimes. When dealing with psycho ex's ignore them; never give in, this will just open the door back up for them to continue to be PSYCHO! Never tell a girl you love her unless you truly mean it and when choosing your next girlfriend find out who she is before proceeding to second base. Chances are she could be a future psycho ex!
Now that I am older I can end a relationship without it seeming too harsh. The 'girls' I talk to now are women and there are some emotional issues here and there but they are not psycho. I learned how to stay away from those type of girls.
Let the seasons determine who you shall be with because what may appear as an angel may just be another Heather Mills! LOL!
Yes fellas, our worst fear : psychotic ex's
Let me take you back to a time when I first encountered a "emotionally damaged" or "psychotic" female. Back in the 9th grade I decided I wanted a actual girlfriend, so like any other young male I went around campus searching for a girl of my interest. I met a girl who almost seemed perfect, she was funny, apparently smart, and was pretty fun to be around. We began to see each other outside of school and started to bond to one another. Then, I asked her out.
So when did things go wrong? We had been dating for a while now and I started to realize that this girl had some jealousy issues. Whenever I talked to another girl there was a problem. We argued almost on a daily basis which is normal in some cases and in some healthy relationships but me being a guy that does not enjoy arguing it was really starting to catch up to me (in the worst way). I was stressed. I had never been stressed before, but all of a sudden I hit high school status met a young attractive girl that I shared some things in common with and BOOM! Stress-free Daren is stressed!
I didn't realize how much she had began to change me... Some people would call this being "head-over-heels". Not exactly, being that I wasn't a very loyal boyfriend because like any other young male, I enjoyed picking up girls with pick-up lines with my friends at the mall. It was not always like this, she had driven me to this point. Even though, we were "in love", she was changing me for the worst.
I learned that some things aren't meant to be and even when we don't agree with something, sometimes it has to be done; I had finally came to my conscious after 3 and a half long years of dating and decided to end our relationship for good. Ending a relationship with a psychotic girlfriend can sometimes be an impossible task because for some reason they can't accept the fact you have left them and they can not let go of you.
What was now my ex-girlfriend became my worst enemy. She just wouldn't let go. She even stalked me sometimes. When dealing with psycho ex's ignore them; never give in, this will just open the door back up for them to continue to be PSYCHO! Never tell a girl you love her unless you truly mean it and when choosing your next girlfriend find out who she is before proceeding to second base. Chances are she could be a future psycho ex!
Now that I am older I can end a relationship without it seeming too harsh. The 'girls' I talk to now are women and there are some emotional issues here and there but they are not psycho. I learned how to stay away from those type of girls.
Let the seasons determine who you shall be with because what may appear as an angel may just be another Heather Mills! LOL!
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